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		<title>How not to talk to your kids</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Feb 2007 15:57:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[How Not to Talk to Your Kids This is an interesting read on how to correctly praise your kids&#8230;and the potential harm of over-praising or always telling your kids they are &#8220;smart.&#8221; It stresses the importance of praising your kids&#8217; effort, encouraging them to develop persistence and a desire to work hard at things, and [...]]]></description>
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This is an interesting read on how to correctly praise your kids&#8230;and the potential harm of over-praising or always telling your kids they are &#8220;smart.&#8221;  It stresses the importance of praising your kids&#8217; effort, encouraging them to develop persistence and a desire to work hard at things, and not to be discouraged when something doesn&#8217;t come easily.  It&#8217;s a bit of a longer article&#8230;but worth the effort.  As it says in the article, &#8220;the brain is a muscle. Giving it a harder workout makes you smarter.&#8221;</p>
<p>It&#8217;s written by Po Bronson, an interesting author and lecturer.  I&#8217;ve enjoyed skimming through some of his books (What Should I Do with My Life and Why Do I Love these People?)and reading his essays.</p>
<p><img src="http://nymag.com/news/features/kids070219_1_560.jpg" alt="The Power (and Peril) of Praise" /></p>
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